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How To Be Happy In A Relationship: Russell Brand The Trews (E410)

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In today's Trews I respond to your comments on various subjects. My new tour 'Russell Brand Re:Birth' is coming to YOUR town - go to http://russellbrand.seetickets.com/tour/russell-brand Subscribe Here Now: http://tinyurl.com/opragcg Produced & edited by Gareth Roy Trews Theme by The Rubberbandits
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Jake Capitanio (2 months ago)
the trick to being happy in realtionship is to watch divorced russell brands video n that will fix everything
Breena Klein (5 months ago)
Why are the tips of your fingers so purple. Lol
Aimee R (6 months ago)
Your Advice is priceless, precious, profound and punctuated with hilarity. Thank-you :D
Zachery Jones (8 months ago)
Just realized I was unsubscribed
Jael Pyykönen (10 months ago)
Georgia Rose Abbott (10 months ago)
Well that first one is word for word what I go through. Funniest spin on it when russel equates it to having a shit 😂
Ted cox (1 year ago)
I've been married to the same woman for 39 years, so the happiness ship sailed away long ago for me. LOL, just kidding. She's good old girl and has been the love of my life. She seems to like me as well. I like that bit about anger passes. Spot on Russell. Some times ya just walk away and have a pint, and when you come back the anger doesn't seem important any longer.
Shalom McGilvary (1 year ago)
I love the way you think Russell, you're a great person and I reckon we think alike, everyone does really but because you've been in the darkness, you've become a light to guide others in the dark.. I admire you so much haha you're fantabbyhoobi
Chassandra Pavoni (1 year ago)
When you meet the true love your ego is severely damaged, nothing can be the same for both of you. You find a feeling that can be defined addiction to your lover, but is not. Your lover is yourself, loving him or her is loving ourself and all the universe.We can't love fully( love has got no measure, you are love or you are not) if you don't love the other part of you, the dark side , what we have always avoided to look at. When you find that man or that woman you find home and peace, it's soul that remembers who we are, a unit connected with the universe .In order to get and hold that energy you have to throw your ego away, consider it just the mean that soul uses to express its power. Trust your love, trust yourself.
libby brickland (1 year ago)
Love your trews. Libby of New Zealand
With Patience (1 year ago)
Wow. Good advice.👍💋
Lee Clark (1 year ago)
Keep it up russ,,I'm proud of ya buh,😉
Ella Pierre (1 year ago)
Pleeeeeaaaaase give us a video on break ups 😫😫😫🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
b2theb (1 year ago)
your finger prints are red.
Say it ain't so Ya'll (1 year ago)
Has he been eating hot cheetos?
Dina Simoné (1 year ago)
Do u believe in a afterlife? Does conscious exist after the body dies? I know that nobody actually has a proven answer to that. Would just like to hear your thoughts on that subject. My mother is dying of alzheimer, her memory and personality are fading because her brain has this terrible disease. I just really want to believe in something that gives me hope.
Marilyn Wisbey (1 year ago)
😂😂😂.. how long is a piece of string?
Marilyn Wisbey (1 year ago)
😂😂😂.. how long is a piece of string?
thestad8 (1 year ago)
Thanks Russell
Seriously though, he's right. The challenge however when you've been in a relationship a long time that may have been great most of that time is it makes it incredibly difficult to walk away when you should. Likewise, shorter relationships end over trivial shit. I don't know what to think of it all outside of questioning the phenomenon.
The curiosity is killing me lmao
I know this is so irrelevant but why are your fingers do fucking red lol?
Love you too Russell. Thank you.
L M (1 year ago)
...better for a moment works for me Russell...brilliance down low...
Maria Perez (1 year ago)
Thank you.
Kudacash (1 year ago)
Hi Russell I'd Love to ask about relationship advice but you just answered that... I live in South Africa Youtube is growing in popularity here and I've been shooting for about 8 months and been meaning to start a Vlog but just can't seem to get round to it any advice for dealing with the direction to take, any advice....
Cherielle Snowden (1 year ago)
Fab x we share our birthday
Rebecca Reilly-Miles (1 year ago)
i work in psychiatric emergency and your clip on o'connor was loveely but she has a personality disorder.. which is a product of sexual abuse however she will build u up and tear you down. they dont mean to do that they are just maladaptive or acopic
LadySilverWolfe (1 year ago)
Hey Russell... I love you and what you are doing to try and do your part to make the world a better/easier/less horrifying thing to endure. My question for you is this. How do you accept loss? To let go of those you love, either relationships end, or the person passes away? My beloved dog, best friend for 12 years is sick with cancer, and his days are numbered. I know I can't keep him forever, but how do I get through it without it destroying me? Never had too much good stuff in life, and never been that good at letting go of things that I've truly loved. Any advice is appreciated. Also. I bet you give really good hugs.
Mary Quin (1 year ago)
I'm in one for 30 years. I adore him. Cuddle, hug, kiss and keep building your partner up. I feel that I'm allowed to be a little bold to give advice. I've been incredibly happy and I believe he the same. OH!!!! Men make your love coffee every morning and women learn to mow the lawn or reset a toilet. VERY IMPORTANT!
Nathalie Fortier (1 year ago)
this is a completely off topic question but...why are your fingers all purple??
Lunar (1 year ago)
We're you eating flaming hot cheetos?
Hannah G0123 (1 year ago)
That is some really fantastic advice Russell. Thanks!
Veronica Allen (1 year ago)
the way u speak projects happyness... I love ur humor. most shit is in my head lol.. did u know that even if on Medicaid to be seen by a doctor is near impossible.. I'd rather just meet a group of people near me that we can use talk therapy since I don't like meds. but if I seem to like the way meth makes me feel up there then maybe I am chemically imballanced... any thoughts Russell
Theresa Orr (1 year ago)
Fingers so red
Cat Palmer (1 year ago)
I have been following Russell Brand for some time now have a lot of questions about things going on in my life tried so many different things but his ways of looking at different things seem to help how could you send him and Email ? I would love for him to read and to hear his outlook on it!
Ange La (1 year ago)
I really love and appreciate how calm you are just saying 'allow it to pass' when you are in a down/ bad state, best piece of advice
Sarah Delano (1 year ago)
Hey! I'm a huge fan! Keep up the videos!! The honesty is refreshing its been a hard year and for some reason the topics in your videos remind me of how human we truely are. Love n peace <3
Habib Ahmad (1 year ago)
your the man russel mate so am i lol
Scott Varley (1 year ago)
Is Russel even wearing pants in this video ?
MonetMonetMonet (1 year ago)
Mansoor Haque (1 year ago)
This too shall pass.Stay calm.Revolt-meter .
vids ee (1 year ago)
can we be free are we capable
William (1 year ago)
can i subcribe twice
Juliana Buchanan (1 year ago)
lol Elkhart Tolle impression on point
Tony Dixon (1 year ago)
The secret to a long and happy relationship comes with just two words....Yes Dear....
Josie Vidal (1 year ago)
I really enjoyed this video! It was just... I don't know, it made me smile, though. My own best advice for a good relationship (married, been with my partner 7 yrs) we just treat each other with courtesy and decency as much as we can. Not that all the other stuff isn't beautiful and fun and nice, and sometimes we fuck up... but in the end, seeing as I don't go around being mean or rude or thoughtless (as much as I can) to strangers, I'm going to make sure I treat the person I love with at least that much decency, no matter what.
b11 5 (1 year ago)
Russell you are attractive and sexy😍
Mohammad Ansari (1 year ago)
I want to have an accent like you can you give me an advice how to do it?
ere ee (1 year ago)
can you describe how spirituality is connected to political activism. I used to be leftist activist and it was very important part of my life bur since ive discovered spirituality i experienced that pain and many other things are just temporary and not that important because theyre earthy. now i am not that motivated in activism as i used to. Also since i dont care much about loss and stuff i dont seem very empathic about the loss of others
Cabbage Nation (1 year ago)
SIMPly the best :)
You are a very genuine person russel and very wise. I seriously wish i had a friend like you to talk to. Although im grateful to be alive and survive all that i have, alot of the time i feel alone, since i have been in a wheelchair for quite some time. Im always looking on the brighter side but sometimes i feel everything slipping away from me. How do i know if my girl even loves me anymore when it seems like everyone is a better friend to her than me. We now have a child which makes things more complicated. I mean is it normal for a couple who say they love eachother to lose romance and what if she is ok with it. I dont want to keep her from her friends, i just want to be one of them. Does this sound like a lost cause?
Nathalie Fortier (1 year ago)
Knowing what makes a good relationship and actually applying it to your real life is entirely a different beast, as Russell can attest to it, having a not so great track record. Thing is, relationships are hard work. You have to put a lot of water in your wine, you have to learn to compromise with each other. You have to not take your mate for granted. You have to listen to them, not because you are wanting to respond to what they are saying, but just stop your mind train and start listening to them. Value them for who they are, and stop wanting to change them. A strong, long lasting relationship takes all these things and much much more. Love and lust are but a tiny detail and one should not put too much emphasis on ppl's appearances. I think part of the problem in Hollywood and why so many relationships fail is that fame and a career in the spotlight just kills any chances of having a normal relationship. Film making/music tours take you away from your mate or family for far too long. Having loads of money is a bad substitute for being absent in your relationship and many just don't survive it. Your entire life is already under a microscope, with tabloids, paparazzi chasing you down. How would any relationship survive such evasiveness?( Before anyone asks me what qualifies me to make such comments about what makes a good relationship well, I met hubby in college when I was 19, and we are still together after 27 years. I love him with all my heart. It still feels like I met him yesterday.)
Chen Juan (1 year ago)
Russel what is your view on monogamy versus polyamory? Isn't it bizarre that love and sex are synonymous when in fact they shouldnt be?
Jed Murphy (1 year ago)
How to be happy in a relationship - find a way to be happy and cultivate awareness within yourself first then you will attract and be attracted to another person who is also doing same. Then two people will grow alongside each other in a supportive aware way.
Spartaka Pinto (1 year ago)
cannot sleep... maybe you can help My Spectacular...
William Grey (1 year ago)
_yeah _*_"more me time"_*_ when _*_"me feels bad, me makes me happy, no wonder me is ALONE :)"_*_ sorry, but this culture of self-love is just ridiculous...suicide rate is on the rise because of self-love...ironic?_ *_Russell why don't you speak about EGOMANIACS AND HOW WE DONT LACK SELF-LOVE WE LACK EMPATHY!_*
Isureamned (1 year ago)
How to be happy in a relationship? Don't shite.
Devon Coleman (1 year ago)
looks like he's been eating hot cheetos
Mel Cornish (1 year ago)
Russell, why do you have pink fingers?
Chrissy Vogel (1 year ago)
is it bad or inappropriate to call a guy a b*tch?! explain please ,I'm.Chrissy and your hilarious...
Violet Holograph (1 year ago)
I do think friendship is really what is behind any relationship that is a happy relationship whether it's with your parents, kids, partners or pets. The problem is we can get caught up in the role-playing and then our relationships become inauthentic like what Eckhart tolle says. I remember once looking at an interview where Billy Conolly's wife Pamela was interviewing him on "Shrink Rap" I think it was called and he spoke about his son talking about his relationship with him and how he viewed his Dad as a good mate of his. This brought a tear to my eye. I value friendship more than anything else in any type of relationship and I think that comes from the relationship I had with my own parents.
Violet Holograph (1 year ago)
I don't want to eat rainbows anyway. Dogs I love! Happiness awaits me!
Marjorie Howard (1 year ago)
love you
Caleb Clament (1 year ago)
Did he eat a ton of hot cheetos before filming this
Jelly Fish (1 year ago)
Dear Russell, I know you are a good reader, can you please suggest any good books about love and relationships? Something that is quite realistic and helps you to understand about why we choose someone in particular and gives you an insight on how love works. Sorry for a broad question, but it would really help me if you can suggest me a good book. Thank you very very much in advance :)
CLEZM (1 year ago)
You look sad, pal. Hope you have a good day today. Nothing wrong with sad, but I can still wish you an unsad moment or three.
Martian (1 year ago)
can you speak a tiny bit slower
Gary Harley (1 year ago)
Eckhart Tolle gave you nothing real; of course! Tolle is a boring and repetitive source of nothing new or real!!!
Michelle O'Brien (1 year ago)
so few dislokes! thats the smallest ratio of dislikes Ive seen on youtube. Well done Russell
Alice Linden (1 year ago)
I am just turning 19 and graduating very soon, this is the first time in my life where I have absolutely nothing that I HAVE to do (Go to the same school everyday to study something someone else picked out for me). I thought this would feel like freedom but honestly I'm just lost. How in the world am I supposed to know where to go from here? I've never been the person to think, ''I want to be a dentist!',' and then put all my energy to become that one thing. So I guess my question is, do you have any advice on how to know which way I should go from here? Or how to pick out a ''I-wanna-be-a-dentist'' sort of goal in life?
Toto Bufu (1 year ago)
420allday66 (1 year ago)
It looks like you were eating hot cheetos lol ... I love your videos they seriously always put a smile on my face
Lauren Taylor (1 year ago)
Dear Russell, i came across a very small book in east london the other day. It was wonderful. I think perhaps you wrote it...?
Rev Head (1 year ago)
Stay single lock your doors , keep away from everyone .....
Richard Arsenault (1 year ago)
Your an awsome dude! Love your stuff!
Reed W (1 year ago)
Very pink finkertips
Revolutionary : 314 (1 year ago)
Hi Russell,I've been wanting to delve into the world of meditation for a while. Are there any books/podcasts/YouTube channels you would recommend for beginning such a venture? Also when during the day and how often would you suggest practising it when leading a busy life? Thanks Russell, for helping so many people make positive changes to their lives. You're an inspiration!
iSmackTalk (1 year ago)
Hi Russell, what do you think is a problem in the world that deserves more recognition? and why?
s.yogasai kiran (1 year ago)
hi sir I am from India I am big fan of you
Nomad314 (1 year ago)
I'm so glad the trews is back 😄 shall we start defacing our money again? 🤑
Karrie pink (1 year ago)
I agree you shouldn't rely on one person but what about when you are disabled and Ill etc and have no choice Russell?
Greg Jones (1 year ago)
Russell, you seem to be something of a modern day Jesus. Don't get too big of an ego; things went badly for Him. But He didn't just speak in parables, He also performed miracles. Do you think it's possible to produce real change just by talking to people, or what are you doing and what can I do to change things through action?
elizabeth davies (1 year ago)
why are your finger tips so purply red? artistic action? berry eating?
fouutirassa (1 year ago)
Tammzz (1 year ago)
Russell! Why are your fingers red?
nikc (1 year ago)
Interesting to hear about the "revometer", I've been told I produce too much adrenaline and have been prescribed meds as sometimes I do fly off the handle a bit, but always i believe, for good reason. (work colleagues being bone idle mainly) Am I being controlled or am i being helped? I'm certain that other addiction issues are the root cause of my rants (i'm a functioning alcoholic) but there's no help available to deal with that as I'm not breaking anyone's system but my own.
MrBidderdal (1 year ago)
Love you too Russ x
Casani Add (1 year ago)
Thank you for your great information, as always. Love you!!
swin81 (1 year ago)
love the poo analogy.
Colonel Sanders (1 year ago)
If you want proper relationship advice go and listen to some patrice o'neal. He's had it right since day 1.
Chris Parkin (1 year ago)
What happened to the revolution, Russell?
Sam Anthony (1 year ago)
Russ mate, do you believe in spooky ghosts
Sam Anthony (1 year ago)
Good, its a pressing matter x
Ash Phthalo (1 year ago)
haha, omg he took your question so seriouslyyy
Holly A (1 year ago)
How come the dog has 33 on his collar?
Iroquois Plissken (1 year ago)
You wanna know how to keep a guy happy? Just give him head and fix him a sandwich. That's it really.
James L. Smith (1 year ago)
hey dude every body has to make a dollar but moving to itunes doesn't look good - i have an ipad as well as android stuff but itunes sux - how much did you get for the move ? anyway i won't follow you there - bless :)))
Alex Hartley (1 year ago)
Dear Russell, I like how you own your infallibly & are trying to use your talent to inform some of us masses. I would like to come & see you like with my brother. Good trews-lots of UK dates. Bad trews-trying to work out closes place you are appearing. please can you add a postcode locator on you gig page for people not living in a big town/city, cheers.
MaryJean Kroll (1 year ago)
Hi Russell, I love the Trews. I love the Trews. That's all for now. MJ
Feel (1 year ago)
Hey Russel Could really use some advice my girlfriend for over a year just revealed to me yesterday that she had slept with someone else about 2 weeks ago. We are extremely close in more than just a physical way. I am so completely hurt and devastated by the fact that she could do this to us. What's a guy to do when the one person that you would normally turn to, to make you feel better when your feeling down is the person that caused this pain? She says she was drunk and I know she feel's an extreme amount of remorse for what she has done. I cannot help but be compassionate towards my loved one but on the other hand, I feel completely mortified by her actions and have no idea what to do. Thanks Simon

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