Divorce is difficult, but men can prepare themselves buy understanding the way family law handles men going through the divorce machine.
Notes below from my video on Divorce. Please share with someone that needs to see this.
This is deep red pill stuff, and answers the question: Why do men go MGTOW (Men Going Their Own Way) after divorce.
INTRO - Ultimate life hack is the right partner - men die because of divorce.
You do not truly know someone until you divorce them.
Marry on YOUR terms because Divorce is on her terms.
THE REPRESENTATIVE - Baby rabies - Live together before you marry - If you think you have problems before marriage, they will only get worse after. Kids or marriage don't solve problems, they amplify them.
- woman have no incentive to behave in divorce
Government Policy & Family Law Idealising single mothers like they are an asset to society.
Government fleeces men
You lived with a single mum, and aren't he biological father? Screw you pay me
She stole your used condom, and used it to get pregnant? Screw you pay me
Broke your back and can't work? Screw you pay me
Section 7 expenses - anything she chooses to put the kids in, you pay for in Canada at least
If you lost your job as a married couple or couldn't work for 6 months all would be forgiven. But divorced, it's fuck you pay me.
If the cost was $300/m for your child why is it $2,000/m when divorced?
Shame tactics - hell hath no fury like a women scorn.
Criticise to motivate you did it wrong - why did you do it that way - We don't have enough money - You're going to wear that?
Men love emotionally, women love opportunistically.
Hypergamy - Women marry up
Parental alienation - he's been run though the family court system, and if lucky gets to come by once a week and see how effective his ex is at making his own children hate him
All you do is write cheques and watch your children go downhill.
Leavor/Leavee relationship. Women don't want you to leave, and are insane about it. When women leave you, its over quick. When men leave women, its never over till she has won.
Access, and why you want shared custody.
- Move anywhere in the world without your consent
- Makes decisions without your consent (medical, religious, name change)
- Money all flows to her, and its totally unreasonable in the amount
Fatherless children are 3 times more likely as a teen to: be pregnant, commit suicide, be suspended from school, abuse drugs/alcohol, join gangs, or end up in jail.
Single mothers with live in boyfriend mean the rate of child maltreatment is 9 times higher than married parents
EXAMPLES OF SHIT
- Wife divorces 2 days after child is born (full custody)
- Wife takes kid, moves out, makes claim father was abusive - later she gets knocked up by another man, and has a fatherless child - claims less then $20k income for 2 yrs yet shows up in a range rover for court dates
- Guy stayed in house, wife harassed him, false accusations, raped him. Begged him to have another kid during the divorce.
- Knew a guy that lost 150,000 on the sale of his house
- security cleared to talk to kids, highest security clearance in Iraq, yet needed supervised visits to see his own kids
- False accusations of domestic violence will ruin you.
Rsources: Canlii.org and ottawadivorce.com
STATS - when choosing your partner
- Chances of being in a stable marriage (defined as 5+ yrs) are in the 60% range if age of first sexual activity is 19+. If it was 14 or younger its less than 40% chance
- If She has had 16 or more partners chances of a stable marriage are less then 20%
- Women with more sexual partners are less content in marriage
Bottom line is if your wife has had many sexual partners, and lost her virginity at a young age, your chances of divorce are higher
Stefan Molyneux video relating to stats
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I got married because I thought it was the right thing to do, and I really loved this woman, 23 years later, i can't stand to look at her, she is mean likes to call you names, i will never do it again, because there's woman out there who would love to be with me, i have wasted alot of years, that I can't get back, i would hate to think all women are nasty like that, life is short, i have always been the nice guy the giver, this bitch will turn around and say, you don't do anything for me, it's like i don't even know who the fuck she is anymore
so sad ... but often true. I was married for 5 years. She asked for the divorce just a month later she was celebrating with me that we were on our 5th anniversary, saying that she was so happy to be with me, that I was this, I was that, and that if I had to choose me again she would have done it ... and all the sudden she took everything. She said she had lived the worst nightmare... she also came up with things like I did not help her enough with the chores... I litearally feel like crap...I had to move into my parents house...in the mean time a save some money. It will be hard to trust someone else after this
The only thing that you got wrong is that it's not "guilty before proven innocent" for them man. It's just "guilty". Period. You *can not* prove you're innocent. It is *way* to expensive to fight in court for anyone. There is no way to prove it, because everything a man does to try to prove it, she can think up more and more dirt to throw at the man. I mean no one is 100% innocent. So she'll pull up stuff you said in private, maybe the one or two bad moments around the kids (of which she has hundreds or thousands), and she'll point those out. If you are a man, you are GUILTY, *NOT* until proven innocent. You're just GUILTY. That's all.
its 2019 and I can't believe still have millons of FOOLS around the globe, falling into this PRIMITIVE system called "marriage". Even after witnessing decades of DISASTROUS relationships allover the media. Its embarrassing to knowledge how stupid men are !
When i got divorced years ago i suddenly realised when in the divorce court that i didn't have a clue who she was anymore. She was a the most sneaky, backstabbing, evil and nasty woman i could have ever laid eyes on.
I was divorcing her because i caught her cheating but the judge didn't give a crap and was obviously on her side because he believed every lie that came out of her mouth. Among other things she blamed me for being violent and abusive and that i broke her jaw. I had never once laid my hands on her and we rarely argued. When my lawyer asked for medical proof of her broken jaw she of course didn't have any because it never happened.
She gave me a sideways look in the courtroom and burst into an Oscar winning performance of tears and everything. It was unbelievable. The judge even passed her handkerchiefs and said he didn't want her to suffer more than she had and basically took everything off me and gave it to her.
Afterwards outside the courtroom she was laughing and joking with her lawyer and i wish that was the end of it. But no she was far from finished destroying me.
I married on 12 12 12 - 1/2 = 6 6 6 . Im screwed. At 52 . After 6 years of being stolen from cheated on . blackmailed . - 2 houses 8 cars and all my money . She worked in a law firm for 15 years before I met her. Fucking cunt is cleaning me out . and that bitch had nothing when I met her. I gave what I thought was a good person a hand up . 8 months and still trying to get the divorce over . fuck me running. Never again . wish I would have seen your video first.
Briffault's Law ruined my marriage.
After recovering from the rage of taking the Red Pill, I am 60 years old, divorced, broke, and unemployable.
I am starting over with a carry-on bag, a laptop, and a fresh passport.
I will turn to the Aaron Clarey retirement plan (Robin Williams necktie party) when my options expire. My time will expire in a few months.
I’m so so sorry. My husband and I both saw our parents, family members, and friends go through HORRIFIC divorces. Literally all my aunts and uncles on both sides got divorced, besides my bachelor uncle who never married or has children and lives in NZ now. 😅 We would never want this for our son. Thank you so much for this video. WOMEN NEED TO BETTER AND FAMILY COURTS NEED TO BE REFORMED. CHILDREN NEED THEIR FATHERS NOT THEIR MONEY. MEN SHOULD BE RESPECTED. MEN ARE NOT ATM MACHINES. God Bless. 💙 xoxox
Got married in 2005 my at the time wife wanted a child so bad we had sex every day till we had our son ten months later we had another son now I was the only person to work in the marriage not even three years later she cheated on me with a woman,I never cheated,leave me for her put me on child support cause she cheated the courts was in her favor didn't even ask how she will take care of then,I got caned bad,o their is a God 13 years later my kids want to live with me,cause I been a man my kids saw it I never lied to my sons,what go up must come down,and how hard was her fall,I want no bad things happen to her,but God y'all can guess the rest.
After learning the truth about divorce rape there is not much that disgusts me more than marriage, i would rather jump off a skyscraper than get married. Thank god that i was an introvert that never obsessed over women, if i did i could be homeless right now with no chance of escaping poverty because my wages were being stolen by a parasitic leech.
Why do you do this?! Why do you FIGHT with your loved one like this?! Grow up! It's not always like this! I can promise you! A woman that really loves you will NOT try to make things hard on you and want to HURT you!
You just want want men to put themselves in the firing line like sitting ducks so one of your fellow sisters can divorce rape him. That ain't happening, slowly men are waking up to the evil laws and slavery men are put through during and after divorce and women will take full advantage. When a woman divorces a man she doesn't want to merely seperate she wants to destroy him and drive him to suicide and the government will back her up all the way. Great philosophers of the past warned men that women when given the opportunity were capable of being far more evil and selfish than any man, they knew what they were talking about.
I am pro the 2 parent model (roughly 50-50 as basis) as children thrive with two parents active in their lives and making sure my child hase the best chances she can get is part of my female duties. There in USA and Germany, Austria.. as well too much financial and power incentive to steal children. Men without shared custody need to stop paying child support even if it means going to jail. That is, both parents need topay chidl support and take care of the child. Need to bring this international for-profit child theft industry down. Civil disobedience is the only way. Real women don't steal children. Lots of women do? Sorry, lots of women are psychopaths. Cannot fix through the courts or legislation because there is just too much profit against fixing the child theft industry. Just like poor workers went on strike to fight for workers benefits, men who want to be free and not abused need to do civil disobedience. Yes it will suck being arrested and going to jail, but I see no other way to fix this rampant international problem.
Good Stuff Rich. I have met one yes ONE man who's ex wife was cool about paying under the table rates. Everyone else has fell victim to the table. I am talking dozens of guys. You do not want to go there, TRUST ME as a guy who has worked in the heavy civil construction field and met his fair share of poor lost divorced souls. This is Gold Stuff for free guys, pass it along!
Yet Western courts still have outdated laws for when women had no spending power. Marriage is nearly a win-win for women, it's something they want earlier because of their biological clock. There's really not much upside for males and if it goes wrong your life can be over and everything you worked for. Of course all the idiots hating on realities will say "incel" etc, they are just scared men are getting educated on these issues.
Of course it isn't. I have worked with several men who were straight out pigs, still with their wives because they put up with it. I think what Rich is getting at is in instances where "it didn't work out" men were forced to pay out their ass to carry the woman for life. This has nothing to do with cheating. My message has always been don't get married... EVER, if you must... do it through a private contract, fuck the state. Oh yeah and fuck your husband for cheating on you too.
Great insight though this isn’t always true. I lived for him. Took care of everything. Put my career on hold. Now we are separated because my life was being drained out of me. I’m the one with two jobs. I’m the one doing everything. He isn’t a bad man but I just couldn’t do it anymore. I am not going to destroy him when we get divorced either. I just want the kids to be ok. I can take care of myself.
Stumbled upon this video because I am trying to understand and cope with my boyfriends divorce. While it was helpful it was kind of offensive from a womens perspective. I refuse to believe that the age of a woman losing their virginity or the number of sexual partners she has determines her worth when it comes to marriage. I am a well educated single mother who lost her viginity really young and I only expect my sons father to pay for half of his school and have shared custody and say in all that pertains to our child. Not all women are this way. It comes down to men raising their standards.
Sexual promiscuity destroys a womans pair bonding mechanisms. Having screwed so many guys, one guy will never be enough for her ever again. For men it is different because sex is far less emotional for a man so screwing around doesn't prevent him from pair bonding.
This is why im not getting married you stupid bitches are not going to steal from guys like me and for the love of god men plz get a prenuptial agreement and don't marry if you wanna live with a women fine buy protect yr self thank you so much sir for the video I had no idea it goes this deep OMG!
Here’s a good idea for us man don’t ever get married under any circumstances problem solved there’s no reason to get married anyway you can do everything without getting married including paying child support. Just cost less when you split up. Sometimes
I wanted to live with my girlfriend but she said no, it is against my religion. I do not agree with that shit. We are still dating and have been discussing marriage. I am a bit hesitant about doing this. I am 77 years old. She is 44 and wants to have children by me. She iis a widow and has a son in his twenties. Comments please.
Man i dont know u but one thing i can say, you are one of the most honest men ive come across... I kind of feel on my own with the exact same thoughts, men are in bottom at the foodchain so to say at least in the society. love u man !
This guy misses a point. Live with somebody before marriage? Forget about religious advice or whatever? So then milk the cow till you decide when you want to pay for it? Thats chicken shit. How about knowing how to be a friend to the girl or guy that attracts you and have a relationship like that first and if it fails or falls short well then you save yourself allota trouble. Don't be reactive because you failed at your marriage. Learn! Be teachable. Get healed so that although you have memories of that painful past you will not react from the pain.
I'd prefer if we all were apathetic towards dating, but we aren't. As humans, most desire companionship and feel the need to procreate, so it's going to happen. Many boys/men haven't come from strong role models or in tack families so educating them on relationship skills instead of selfishness skills would create happier people in general. Your world of cynical thinking may keep you safe from harm, but it sounds empty to me. To speak for women if I may, treat us the way you'd like to be treated and all will be well. Peace
There are many women that feel they can't cope, but go on anyway for the sake of their offspring. I think you are adding to the problem, not resolving it by encouraging male centeredness. Suicide alone is a self centered act. Would you expand on your meaning of "unproductive"?
Most of the divorces are initiated by women. When men get married, they get married to the state and are risking their wealth and property. My advice if you’re getting married, make the woman feel scared of your presence and know not to cross you. Most pessimistic women tend to stay in relationships if you degrade them and threaten them with violence.. the most mistake men make is that they are too comfortable after getting married and the woman is already one upping you by thinking how much they can take from you. You are playing a game of chess in marriage, always make the first move to see who controls the relationship.
I just (literally finished it this week) went through a divorce after almost 28 years. Thank God her DNA was just as sweet as when we married. The law was definitely against me but my EX was fair. I never felt so helpless sitting in the German lawyer's office going through a list of benefits that she was entitled to by German law. My EX asked "Why? Are you trying to destroy this man?" Then she proceeded to instruct the lawyer to stick with our agreement because she didn't want to destroy me. That said, I'll NEVER marry again! My EX was wonderful but the situation could have been much worse if her true "DNA" had turned out to be otherwise. We have two grown children. I did not cheat on her, we just grew apart but are still friends. In the end, we're both doing well.
any woman looking to settle down at 30+ is an old slapper, avoid guys, they are burned out, been getting multiple cocks worldwide or all around their local burb, theyve hit the wall and they WILL have massive amounts of baggage. find a younger less used, less damaged girl.... pro tip
Was divorced back in the nineties! Made seventeen hundred bring home a month which she was entitled to eleven hundred a month! Called my caseworker one day and told her I was having trouble making my rent every month! She suggested I get a roommate and hung up! Took everything in my power not to go to the FOC office and kill the bitch! My kids are now all in their thirties so it's all good!
I came across this video by accident. I am sorry to see all these sad stories. I am a 49 yrs female and have been married for 28 yrs now. It’s a beautiful thing where you need to know how to communicate, solve problems, and listen. Yes, there will be challenges, but if both are committed to the relationship, things will
Work out. Don’t be scared of marriage. Choose the right partner, stay committed, and nurture the relationship frequently. Gentlemen, there is one mistake I do often see you make: you go after the look and not the substance. Therefore, you get involved with the wrong women.!! Good luck to all.
There's also this thing called "maintenance" in some states in the US. When I got divorced (no kids, she made $130K), by law I was supposed to pay her $5500/month in "maintenance" for the next 39 months. This shit is real boys. I can see why men get so fucking depressed and mental after a divorce. I was there myself. The laws are designed to fuck men up.
I asked my husband for divorce after 15 years of marriage. We grew up in a society very respectful of the man and where the woman must do her best to be a good wife but we live in North America. he does not know how lucky he is, he says I disrespect him when I speak out loud :) I have never known other men in my life and I still love him so much! but he has consumed all the patience I had.
Guys. I got married at age 35. My friend and family told me NOT to do it. I was arrogant and thought my fiance/ wife was different, sweet, innocent. I thought she would do me no harm.
20 years later i was in a sexless, cold, loveless relationship. She left me for her high school sweetheart. I lost everything. Alimony, the house i paid for, child support, and other assets.
You are me 20 years ago. I wish i can go back in time and undo the biggest mistake of my life.
Don't get married. Stay single. Trust me, youll be richer and happier. Please. Do not marry her!
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