Divorce is difficult, but men can prepare themselves buy understanding the way family law handles men going through the divorce machine.
Notes below from my video on Divorce. Please share with someone that needs to see this.
This is deep red pill stuff, and answers the question: Why do men go MGTOW (Men Going Their Own Way) after divorce.
INTRO - Ultimate life hack is the right partner - men die because of divorce.
You do not truly know someone until you divorce them.
Marry on YOUR terms because Divorce is on her terms.
THE REPRESENTATIVE - Baby rabies - Live together before you marry - If you think you have problems before marriage, they will only get worse after. Kids or marriage don't solve problems, they amplify them.
- woman have no incentive to behave in divorce
Government Policy & Family Law Idealising single mothers like they are an asset to society.
Government fleeces men
You lived with a single mum, and aren't he biological father? Screw you pay me
She stole your used condom, and used it to get pregnant? Screw you pay me
Broke your back and can't work? Screw you pay me
Section 7 expenses - anything she chooses to put the kids in, you pay for in Canada at least
If you lost your job as a married couple or couldn't work for 6 months all would be forgiven. But divorced, it's fuck you pay me.
If the cost was $300/m for your child why is it $2,000/m when divorced?
Shame tactics - hell hath no fury like a women scorn.
Criticise to motivate you did it wrong - why did you do it that way - We don't have enough money - You're going to wear that?
Men love emotionally, women love opportunistically.
Hypergamy - Women marry up
Parental alienation - he's been run though the family court system, and if lucky gets to come by once a week and see how effective his ex is at making his own children hate him
All you do is write cheques and watch your children go downhill.
Leavor/Leavee relationship. Women don't want you to leave, and are insane about it. When women leave you, its over quick. When men leave women, its never over till she has won.
Access, and why you want shared custody.
- Move anywhere in the world without your consent
- Makes decisions without your consent (medical, religious, name change)
- Money all flows to her, and its totally unreasonable in the amount
Fatherless children are 3 times more likely as a teen to: be pregnant, commit suicide, be suspended from school, abuse drugs/alcohol, join gangs, or end up in jail.
Single mothers with live in boyfriend mean the rate of child maltreatment is 9 times higher than married parents
EXAMPLES OF SHIT
- Wife divorces 2 days after child is born (full custody)
- Wife takes kid, moves out, makes claim father was abusive - later she gets knocked up by another man, and has a fatherless child - claims less then $20k income for 2 yrs yet shows up in a range rover for court dates
- Guy stayed in house, wife harassed him, false accusations, raped him. Begged him to have another kid during the divorce.
- Knew a guy that lost 150,000 on the sale of his house
- security cleared to talk to kids, highest security clearance in Iraq, yet needed supervised visits to see his own kids
- False accusations of domestic violence will ruin you.
Rsources: Canlii.org and ottawadivorce.com
STATS - when choosing your partner
- Chances of being in a stable marriage (defined as 5+ yrs) are in the 60% range if age of first sexual activity is 19+. If it was 14 or younger its less than 40% chance
- If She has had 16 or more partners chances of a stable marriage are less then 20%
- Women with more sexual partners are less content in marriage
Bottom line is if your wife has had many sexual partners, and lost her virginity at a young age, your chances of divorce are higher
Stefan Molyneux video relating to stats
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I was just watching the new episode of Family Guy, a show my humorless ex-wife never got, and Peter is reading an ipad in bed while Lois is tossing and turning showing obvious irritation with the light. It reminded me of at least fifteen of the twenty years I was married. Thank god that's over. I've been out for 3 years now. The first two years was difficult, but the kids are fine now and I'm heading to Spain (alone) in May to walk the Camino de Santiago for two months. I hope to leave a lot of baggage on that road. You're supposed to carry a small rock with you to leave on the pile at the end. I'm thinking of carrying a 120 lb stone to represent the cancerous parasite that sucked the life out of me for 20 years. Yup, got just that last bit of anger to leave in Spain. When I get back, I'm rebooting my life the way it was supposed to be, small, simple, one bedroom apartment in the city. I plan to do a lot of traveling the way I want to do it. No five star hotels because she won't tolerate anything less. I'm staying in hostels and airbnb, simple, easy, working part time and traveling half of every year.
Everybody needs to know the REAL truth and I'm going to tell it to you because nobody else will (Short of Jesus Christ) You can bet this video guy won't tell you! So here it is: Almost all people thinking they get divorced are fooling themselves Jesus Christ Himself gave you His word and promise saying He will not let man put your marriage asunder What does that mean? It means there's not a man, woman, or child on this planet who has the right or authority to tell you, me, or anybody else that our husband is not our husband or our wife is not our wife NOBODY can "Grant" you a divorce! EVER! Not because i said so Because Jesus Christ said so Now you know the REAL truth
Okay question how much evidence does a man need to completely get 100% custody if i have ALOT of circumstancell evidence of drug abuse definite proof of cheating and small circumstancell evidence of child neglect and emotional abuse is that enough to get full costody in your opinion?
My... wife (i dont like to call her that) the person i married suffers from bipolar and serious anxiety which she will admit and she will admit she is not in a good state of mind BUT she wil NOT let me have the kids while she gets her crap sorted im not a bad guy my wife has some mental issues but she doesn't want to change who she has become a cheating drugy that cant and shouldn't be a parent
im LDS and she is cheating on me with a jobless weed addict.
In Australia I was forced to paid child support based on my income +hers (100k+20k) But my daughter came to live with me at 15 then I had to hound child support for my x to pay me..and on 120! But even after they finally agreed that she would pay it was only based on her income 20k....they said It was fair!
This is how the world elites are taking apart all the first world countries. This is all done purpose. Even a politician is smart enough to realize that these laws have done nothing but degrade our society. If you ever feel the need to get married, never do it unless there is an iron clad prenuptial agreement. Iron clad including a provision for future kids. No matter how much you or her make. She could make 150K per year, quit to have kids, not be happy with your 100K per year, leave you for her high school sweetheart, and destroy you. Why wouldn't she? You'll be paying her 2500/month (more than enough for a baby sitter), she goes back to work, pockets her money, and lets the simp pay for everything else. On top of that, getting into another relationship is difficult for you because women don't like guys paying a lot money to their ex-wives. At the end of the day...it's not worth it.
I feel the same way my friend my woman decided that she wasn't going to sleep with me but four times a year for 8 years I should have left when I came home from my deployment when she had the miscarriage but I fought for my marriage like a jackass cuz I'm Catholic worst thing I ever did now everyday is a rainy day does men get screwed in divorce I have to fight myself not to take my life everyday
Always look at the relationship of a woman with her mother for warning signs. Always watch the behavior of the mother, that's your wife in the future. True. Watch how her mother relates to her husband.
The major tactic of of women in a poor marriage is always find a way to make themselves appear the 'victim'. You are always the person that has/is doing 'wrong' things that affect her. Beware and recognize the Victim game when it comes.
The evolutionary chemical bonding mechanism fools you into marriage, and makes it emotionally difficult to end a relationship, and later to divorce. So most people will endure a poor marriage for many many years. This is especially true where you are financial much worse off with a divorce. So you remain stuck.
I stumbled across this video and hoped against hope that I was going to hear something truly thoughtful and not full of paranoid rants pitting the sexes against one another rather than good people vs. sociopaths and narcissists. I went through every nightmare under the sun and it was a man creating the chaos. Another thing you cannot say every parent should have access to children. My ex was a diagnosed sociopath and there was absolutely nothing more harmful than time with him. I'm sorry you were hurt, but it wasn't the fault of all women. just the same i don't make videos about why all men suck just because i married a nightmare. my 2nd husband is a dream and there are a lot of good people but you cannot walk around thinking like this or you will make it self fulfilling prophecy. Your examples were bad people i agree, but it is easy to tell stories about bad guys, so it isn't about gender.
It's an easy fix that doesn't require much thought or effort. Don't marry any of these women period. Any man who has worked his ass off to become successful in his life and has assets is a Goddamn FOOL if he marries any woman I don't give a fuck who she is. If you do and when you get fucked then you got exact what you deserved.
My wife said i yelled at her and smoked pot in the house... that was enough for her to have the cops remove me... took 4 months to get back into MY OWN house that I PAY THE MONTHLY mortgage on.... its crazy what they can do to you without proof.
It was like this in my last relationship and I wasn't married to the chick... And she did use the same shame tactics on me lying to people she also got me arrested lying to the police saying I hit her than she loved to use her child as a crutch everytime I threatened to leave than when I left the bitch broke in my house three times and she knows how to throw some pitty parties she tried to get everyone to feel sorry for her it's a joke and than what's so sad is that I tried to be her friend cuz her daughter lives me and her dad don't care... Trying to be that good guy cuz I ain't a grudge holder... Make a long story short she kept trying to cunive her way into being with me and trying to use different ways and manipulate me into wanting to marry me... So I shoot her down every time she comes at me and tell her to fuck herself and shoot her dreams down...make a long story short I'm dealing with a greedy manipulative needy gluttony dramatic individual...everthing she does for people it comes at a cost... Example she buy me a drink from the store I gotta cook dinner wash her clothes and go and run her water...that type of system... She buy me Christmas I gotta go and spend 500 dollars and if I don't donut than the bitch get mad and start to slander you and bad mouth you to all her family and her friends so it's sickening to even want Marriage or even to settle down... I don't trust none of these things out here I've been through so much I just don't give a fuck for marriage or no stupid ass relationships... Fuck it I rather die alone an old man peaceful with my ounces of weed rather than from a heart attack one of these hoes caused me fuck all that I'm done being the nice guy letting all these fuckin predator bitches in my home trying to find ways to destroy me and trying to manipulate and fix and try to control me fuck that...but even with my kids mom that shit ain't work out... I just realized something...i don't have to put up with a relationship at all... I live more peaceful and stress free without having to have some chick all in my face worrying about what I'm doin I feel good to come home without some bitch all in my face... It's easier to have a friend or three do something than put they ass out my house the next day fuck all that moving in gettin together shit... I do fine without the drama or commitment or that fuckin Bullshit traditional marriage shit...i don't take none of these females seriously
I feel sorry for you. Do you have any female friends at all? You have so much of hatred towards women. There are genuine women too.... not sure if you will be able to notice them with your deep rooted hatred for women.
This happened to my FEMALE friend. Its not about what sex you are, its about how much $$ you make, she met a loser partner and she paid in spades. Stop being so one sided. He was addicted to drugs and wouldn’t get treatment for depression. The husband got 50% custody and it got to the point where she had to buy groceries for them when the kid was at his house, because he blew his money on his addictions. I HATE THESE VIDEOS OF PEOPLE WHO HAVE ZERO LIFE EXPERIENCE and pretend to think they know shit. You suck.
Thank you for this. I truly never knew that men have it more difficult then us women. Before I married my husband I asked him if he was ready to ride this roller coaster with me, he said yes. 10 years and we have our good days and bad. But I like you say we need to complement each other. I enjoyed watching this.
Some of the stories he tells are really sad and scary. Kinda makes me wanna cry how marriage is supposed to be this sacred, religious gathering of a man and a woman to share their lives until they pass-over but is corrupt by how people think and take marriage so lightly. Please don't get married unless you really know who you are marrying and why (for the right reasons).
A case study: the woman your living with says very kindly to leave the toothpaste cap on. The same woman whom you marry now calls you an asshole because you left the cap off the toothpaste. She now knows that she has the power. Living together proves NOTHING. It is a trap.
You are so wrong I am a woman and my ex-husband is doing exactly what a bitter ex-wife does. everything you have said my ex-husband has done to me and he is a male.. So is not about gender is about personal choice. You divorce then get over it and make the best of it for the sake of the children. So getting a divorce is hard when one of the parties is a greedy narcist. So, my dear, you are SO WRONG.
These fucking women can Fuck off.. I have literally been everything I can be for my women and its never enough. I work full time x3, I cook all the meals, I do a majority of the house work, I do all the yard work and I'm a full time father to my two beautiful daughters. My wife does nothing other than complain about my daughter's and all the things I don't do. But wait I do everything??. She doesn't have a job and refuses to get one and I cant take the verbal abuse any more and I don't know what to do. Help me please, I'm done..
The children of a family where one of the parents passes away usually do far better in the long run than children of parents who deliberately break up the family.
It is a simple matter of honor thy parents vs hate thy parents.
Why nobody ever uses this example is beyond me.
Guys you can win at the divorce but you need to plan. 1 never move out. Spend as much time with your children as you can . Take your children every where with you. Record who spends the most time with the children . When you serve her with papers cut off all of her access to your money and tell her you are filing for custody . It's important to always have her on the defense. In the mid 80s I worked as a Sheet metal mech making over 20 dollars an hour and my wife worked part time as a waitress. Even though she was only part time I spent much more time with our 2 children then she did. She would come home drunk and then start arguments to justify coming in at 3 in the morning. She said that she didn't get to do those things before we got married and thought she should be able to now. I decided I didn't want a spoiled teen age brat for a wife, She wasn't teen aged just acted that way. I got a good lawyer and listened to him to a tee. It didn't hurt that 2 months after my divorce my lawyer became our county judge. PS She was arrested for parental kidnapping , spent time in jail for non support and got a felony for claiming our children on her tax return to get the instant refund. I got remarried and have been married to my wife for more than 30 years and retired early Our children have almost no contact with her and call my wife mom
My marriage is bad, its been tough now with my 2 year old Daughter who I love dearly and would put aside my happiness for her own I don't want her to grow up seeing us fight everyday . With that said I can't take anymore verbal and physical abuse because the second I react I become the bad guy with 1 mistake.
I wonder why men marry Instagram Thots and Tinder sluts and so many nurses, teachers and social workers are single? Think of how many strippers get marriage proposals and women of faith barely get dates
As a 30 year old going through this I understand completely what you are saying. Mine was a 3 year marriage no kids between us (she had 2 from a previous relationship). Nothing was wrong in the marriage except me asking for more help around the house and financially, I went to work one day came home to an empty house, no kids, my dogs, my personal property that I've had since I was a kid all gone. Now I'm on the hook for APL (even though she only makes $300 less then me a month and gets child support from her ex on top of that) and I'm paying all the martial debt, mortgage credit cards payments on bills and they don't care she's living rent free on a million dollar family farm in a house all to herself. And she's going for the max of my savings account my retirement though work and the value of my truck which was really the only thing she left that day besides some dishes. And in Pennsylvania according to my lawyer 'shes can do that and most likely will get it' AFTER A 3 YEAR MARRIAGE??? With all the equal women's right movements out there it's so depressing that the legal system has so far to come to equal rights. I think the way society is men should be standing up for OUR rights but according to the legal system we're men, suck it up and deal with it. Wish I would have seen this video before I signed on the dotted line.
I've seen stats that say less than 16 partners. Much less. If a woman has multiple partners before marriage her chances of staying devoted and monogamous to her husband is practically zero. That 16% stat is very leniant.
My marriage was Hell! My wife thought that my sole purpose was to keep up with her daily shopping sprees & last minute international travels. She ran me bankrupt. She was always looking for an upgrade replacement for me. After she left me for the third time I filed for divorce on grounds of abandonment. The courts awarded her full custody, 2/3rds all assets, 2 out of 3 cars, 1/2 my social security, 1/2 my pension & 2/3rds 401k funds. $2K monthly alimony for a 7 year term, along with $900 monthly child support. She is always looking for reasons to not let me see my son. After what I went through, I tell ALL young men that marriage is not a good thing for men. Women rape & pillage the finances, lie, cheat & steal. When you try to put a halt to their destructive behavior they sue or divorce. Women legally profit off of their entitled behavior. Men; Don't make babies, don't get married, don't live with these female demons that our laws created. If you do, I promise that you will be gravely sorry.
Marriage is nothing more than a money making racket, especially when going through a divorce. And that's what laywers are banking on. Why is it that people can get married in a day, but takes months to get a divorce?
My ex wanted to leave and we had two girls. I understood and said I'd give her 1,200 a month for the kids. She said "I'll get what I'm entitled to," then got ejected from my house with a well planned protection order. She got less than 12, but I will never get over this angst towards her. Used the kids as leverage. I HATE this woman. So thats great and all staying in the home and all that but the protection order trumps any chance of shared custody.
All this posturing is really useless. If you are married already - watch the video maybe you'll understand what might be coming, or not if you are one in a million. If you arent married DONT, its as simple as that. Dont try any hacks or do this or dont do that. You are literally playing Russian roulette.
Those in power are white knights and feminists. Things are getting worse every year. When men stop marrying the State will force men to marry or will exterminate them. Mark my words, it will first happen in the East, and then the West will follow suit.
Marriage problem differs from couple to couple. So we can't really write down keys or draw a pattern to achieving a successful marriage.
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Don't kill yourself over what you can handle.
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Oh my Lord you make me so mad!
Mr know NOTHING!! It goes BOTH ways!! Men can be just as cruel!
AND THE BLANKET STATEMENTS HE'S SAYING IS REDICULOUS! Making us sound like the devil!
MY ex AND current partn8have BOTH put countless of restraining orders to get me outta the house!! Then I end up looking BAD
These stories just keep on repeating themselves. Guys, it does not matter how hot she is. How big her chest is. How good she is in bed. How hot she looks with no clothes. When she decides to leave, and she will in most cases, then all those good moments for you will mean nothing, and she will go for the throat and try to take everything she can get. You would have spent your money better at McDonalds with your friends. It happened to me, and countless of other well meaning guys that I know. You have to maintain control of yourself and listen to sound advice like what is found on this channel. You are not, and she is not an exception. Pursue your own excellence. Don't waste your time or resources.
After I had mine, a rabbi gave me some advice. Animosity will not help. He said not to curse your x, because when you do that you're cursing your own children. Also don't think about how you wish had never met your wife, because again you're wishing you had never had your children.
Hi my friend I have some advice for all the men who are getting divorced please please get a DNA test from the children you have it's the difference between paying 60% of all your money and 20% of all your money that's a big difference and if history is correct between 2 and 6 children of every hundred 2 children are not from the men who thinks that he is the father that can save you a lot of money do a DNA test can you please advise your followers to do it it can help them a lot
Woah. I just came across this video. The points you make are interesting, but it shows some woman really hurt you. It is a pity. People should be kind to one another. My friends are not like that. In fact, we have been screwed around royally by men!
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